Mexican Social Rules
Body Language
In Mexico, people start a conversation by talking about their families, friends, and feelings so that the parties feel more comfortable. It’s considered rude not to engage in what Americans call “small talk.” We want to show that we care about the well-being of the other person. People also use their hands more when they talk. We are affectionate and show a lot of gratitude. For example, friends can hug or kiss each other on the cheek without others assuming that they are dating. In general, there is less personal space during conversations.
Age
Mexican families are usually very close. Several generations often live together. Because of this, we have a great deal of respect for elders. As they become older, young people have a responsibility to help care for their elders. Of course, it is very difficult to do this when families are separated by immigration. Depending on the area in which they live, young people have different expectations. In some areas, 18 is the age when a child is considered an adult who has the right to drink, vote, smoke, or drive. In more rural areas, children are considered independent at a young age (12 or 13) because they have to work in the fields and farms.
Gender
Males and females attend school together and socialize. Some families are more traditional with regard to gender roles, but others are more modernized. In traditional families, women are responsible for child care and housework, while men work outside the home. In modernized families, women work outside the home and men and women share responsibilities more equally. Mexican society is sometimes referred to as machismo, but in recent years women's rights and protection under the law have increased.
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